Womanhood: a calling
Right from the moment of your conception in the secret place of your mother’s womb, God knew you and he wanted you to exist and to exist deliberately and specifically as a woman.
The fact that you were born female was no accident.
Your womanhood and the gift of your femininity is something that God delights in and he wants to be expressed in and through the way that you live your life.
Someone who offered women an understanding of their femininity as truly vocational was Saint John Paul II.
Elected as Pope shortly after the peak of the sexual revolution and feminist liberation movement, John Paul II was deeply aware of the challenges facing women in the modern world. While recognising these challenges he also saw the need to communicate the age old truths of the Church in new and engaging ways. One of the ways he chose to engage women more fully was to extend to them an invitation. It is an invitation to reflect with him on what it means to be created as a woman in light of God’s original plan.
More than 20 years ago John Paul II extended this invitation in his apostolic letter Mulieris Dignitatem, on the vocation and dignity of women. John Paul II begins Mulieris Dignitatem with the closing statement from the Council Fathers at the end of the Second Vatican council. He quotes;
“The hour is coming, in fact, has come, when the vocation of woman is being achieved in its fullness, the hour in which woman acquires in the world an influence, an effect and a power never hitherto achieved. That is why, at this moment when the human race is under-going so deep a transformation, women impregnated with the spirit of the Gospel can do so much to aid mankind in not falling.” (Pope John Paul II Mulieris Dignitatem)
This forms the essence of what John Paul II wished to communicate. A desire that women would play a central and irreplaceable role in the world. He called on all women to embrace their giftedness or genius, and offer that as a gift to the world.
Woman: An Answer
Sadly, many women do not believe that their womanhood is, in fact, a gift.
Rather than seeing their femininity as an answer many women live their lives with the underlying belief that they, their womanhood, is, in fact, a problem. That they are either too much or they are not enough, that they
attract too much attention or not enough. In so much of John Paul II’s work, he offered men and women a paradigm shift, rather than being a problem he encouraged all women to embrace the fact that they are in fact an answer, to so many of the problems that face the world. But in order to be that answer women need to know what it is they have to offer. Instead of trying to be like men he encouraged women to embrace the unique spiritual qualities of womanhood, qualities which he called the feminine genius.
The Feminine Genius
Some of the qualities that mark the feminine genius include; receptivity, sensitivity, generosity and maternity. While certainly not limited to these it is these qualities which really mark a woman’s unique nature.
Receptivity: This lies at the heart of the feminine genius. Rather than being a passive state the receptivity of womanhood is an active receiving of the gifts of life and love.
Sensitivity: The sensitivity that is so integral to the feminine personality is an ability to see and understand the deeper needs and longings of the human heart, and to respond in love.
Generosity: The qualities of receptivity and sensitivity, in turn, give rise to a spirit of generosity which places value on the human person in a unique way.
Maternity: One of the great joys of and mysteries of the feminine genius is the capacity for motherhood, both physical and spiritual.
“A woman, as well as a man, must understand her ‘fulfilment as a person, her dignity and vocation, according to the richness of the femininity which she received on the day of creation and which she inherits as an expression of the “Image and likeness of God” that is specifically hers.” (John Paul II Mulieris Dignitatem 10)
These qualities, John Paul II explained emerge from a woman’s physical capacity to nurture, sustain and bring forth new life. While this capacity may not be actualised in every woman it is the ability to do so which structures a woman’s personality in a unique way. A way which makes her person centred.
She sees the human person with the eyes of the heart and senses their true value as human beings. Without the presence of women, the world is deeply impoverished.
Mary sheds light on womanhood. Women by looking to Mary find in her the secret of living their femininity with dignity and of achieving their own true advancement.” (John Paul II Redemtoris Mater 46)
The Perfect Example
The Blessed Mother is referred to by John Paul II as the exemplar, the perfect example of womanhood. In her, we see the qualities of womanhood lived out in an exceptional way. Rather than being an unrealistic ideal John Paul II encouraged all women to pray for the grace and wisdom to live the fullness of their femininity in everyday situations.
In each of these situations, be they changing the nappies, doing the groceries, responding to multiple requests for something to eat, each one of us is asked to respond with the generous YES of Mary’s fiat. She was able to respond so generously because she had made a place for God in her heart. Perhaps as mothers this is one of the most important lessons Mary can teach us. When we open our hearts to receive the love of Christ, then that love transforms us and gives us the ability to love without limits.
As mothers, women have a unique opportunity to really impact the lives of the little and the not so little people who look to them to help navigate the path of life.
(Author - Karen Doyle - http://cathfamily.org/the-feminine-genius/)