In a world where frantically rushing to sales, buying extravagant gifts, and tackling stressful to-do lists have become the focus in the lead-up to Christmas, I’m sure I can speak for many of us when I say that this is an Advent custom, we, as Christians, have not consciously subscribed to.
Unfortunately, however, a time that should be spent in prayer for spiritual preparation and growth has instead become a season of commercial frenzy, leaving our spiritual preparation behind.
A Time of Hope, Reflection, and Joy
Advent is a season rich with symbolism and traditions that help the faithful prepare their hearts and minds for the coming of Christ. One of the most recognised symbols is the Advent wreath, and even the simple activity of lighting the four candles can bring us together as families and bring our thinking back to God. Each candle represents one of the four weeks of Advent and carries its own special significance:
- The First Candle - The Prophet’s Candle symbolises hope and the expectation of the coming Messiah, as foretold by the prophets.
- The Second Candle - The Bethlehem Candle represents faith and reminds us of Mary and Joseph's journey to Bethlehem.
- The Third Candle - The Shepherd’s Candle, a pink candle, signifies joy and marks the halfway point of Advent.
- The Fourth Candle - The Angel’s Candle represents peace and reminds us of the angels' message: "Peace on Earth, Good Will Toward Men."
In some traditions, a fifth candle, the Christ Candle, is placed in the centre of the wreath and lit on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day to signify the arrival of Christ.
Reflection and Action
Advent is a time to slow down and reflect on the true meaning of Christmas. At Hornsby Cathedral, we run an annual “retreat,” giving everyone a chance to take a moment to pause. This period isn't just about looking back at the historical birth of Jesus but also about preparing for His second coming.
During Advent, many people engage in practices that help deepen their faith and bring them closer to God. Here are some ways to make the most of this season:
- Daily Devotionals: Reading daily devotionals that focus on Advent themes can provide a moment of peace and reflection each day.
- Advent Calendars: Traditionally used to count down the days until Christmas, modern Advent calendars can include daily scriptures, prayers, or acts of kindness to encourage spiritual growth.
- Acts of Charity: Advent is a perfect time to embody the spirit of giving. Volunteering, donating to those in need, and performing random acts of kindness are ways to spread love and joy.
- Prayer and Fasting: Setting aside time for prayer and, for some, fasting can help focus on spiritual preparation and anticipation of Christ’s coming.
Conclusion: Welcoming Advent with Open Hearts
As we light the candles of our Advent wreaths and decorate our homes, let’s remember the true reason for the season. Advent is a time to prepare our hearts for the coming of Christ, to reflect on His love and sacrifice, and to share that love with those around us. May this season be filled with hope, faith, joy, and peace for you and your loved ones.
This year, let’s plan to give God what is God’s by using the Advent season to strengthen the faith in our families.
If you’d like to find out more about what’s happening in the Parish this Advent and Christmas, visit the HCP website https://www.bbcatholic.org.au/hornsby/, our Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/HornsbyCathedralParish, or contact the Parish office Monday to Friday at (02) 8379 1700.
About the Author – Jessica Crino is a long-term HCP parishioner, mother, and Parenting Coach who supports mothers seeking more peace and connection in their parenting. If you’d like to read more about Jess, visit https://www.facebook.com/jessicacrinocoach/.